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> <channel><title>CEP &#187; Relationships</title> <atom:link href="http://www.character.org/blog/category/relationships/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.character.org</link> <description></description> <lastBuildDate>Wed, 10 Apr 2013 19:28:38 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en-US</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.1</generator> <item><title>Member of Post-Columbine Generation Reflects on School Shooting</title><link>http://www.character.org/blog/2012/02/member-of-post-columbine-generation-reflects-on-school-shooting/</link> <comments>http://www.character.org/blog/2012/02/member-of-post-columbine-generation-reflects-on-school-shooting/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 21:20:05 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Katie Hood</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Character Education News]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Education News]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category> <category><![CDATA[student voice]]></category> <category><![CDATA[relationships with students]]></category> <category><![CDATA[school shooting]]></category> <category><![CDATA[violence]]></category> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.character.org/?p=7541</guid> <description><![CDATA[by Carol Dreibelbis, Education &#38; Research Fellow Monday, February 28th brought us news of another school shooting—this time in Chardon, OH. The entire country has been rocked by this violent act that killed three students and injured two others. This is news that we hope to never hear again. I must admit that I was not shocked when I heard about the shooting. I had just turned 10 years old when the Columbine shooting occurred, so I’ve grown up with school shootings in the news. When I was in elementary school in Minnetonka, MN, a 5th grader brought a knife to school. Bomb scares happened every so often during middle school and high school, and gun scares were not unheard of on my college campus in Princeton, NJ. While some of us might deny that a school shooting could ever happen in our community, it seems all too possible to me. Having graduated college back in June, I’m a relatively new employee here at CEP. Joining CEP has pushed me to think about issues such as school violence in new ways. I have realized that violence is something that schools can both prepare for—just as Chardon High School did by creating a response plan to deal with violence when it occurs—and prevent. Can we work toward a new future where shootings and other acts of violence are rarities in school settings? I think so. We have all heard that instances &#8230; <br
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href="http://www.character.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/bio-Carol-Dreibelbis.jpg"><img
class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4555" title="bio-Carol-Dreibelbis" src="http://www.character.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/bio-Carol-Dreibelbis.jpg" alt="" width="133" height="166" /></a>by Carol Dreibelbis, Education &amp; Research Fellow</p><p>Monday, February 28<sup>th </sup>brought us news of another school shooting—this time in Chardon, OH. The entire country has been rocked by this violent act that killed three students and injured two others. This is news that we hope to never hear again.</p><p>I must admit that I was not shocked when I heard about the shooting. I had just turned 10 years old when the Columbine shooting occurred, so I’ve grown up with school shootings in the news. When I was in elementary school in Minnetonka, MN, a 5<sup>th </sup>grader brought a knife to school. Bomb scares happened every so often during middle school and high school, and gun scares were not unheard of on my college campus in Princeton, NJ. While some of us might deny that a school shooting could ever happen in our community, it seems all too possible to me.</p><p>Having graduated college back in June, I’m a relatively new employee here at CEP. Joining CEP has pushed me to think about issues such as school violence in new ways. I have realized that violence is something that schools can both prepare for—just as <a
href="http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/local/2012/02/28/in-chardon-the-training-paid-off.html">Chardon High School did</a> by creating a response plan to deal with violence when it occurs—and prevent. Can we work toward a new future where shootings and other acts of violence are rarities in school settings? I think so.</p><p>We have all heard that instances of school shootings, teen suicides, and other violent acts have been connected to bullying and lack of acceptance at school. Given this, the shooting on Monday highlights the importance of creating safe and caring school communities. Comprehensive character education efforts can build an atmosphere where students feel included, connected, and part of their school community; where both students and teachers step up to report bullying and stand up for victims; where teachers check in with vulnerable or troubled students instead of hoping, “she’s fine” or “he’s too much trouble”; and where parents are involved and engaged. This may seem like just a dream to many, but it is achievable—just ask many of our <a
href="http://www.character.org/schools-of-character/">National Schools of Character</a>!</p><p>There are, of course, countless reasons why acts of violence take place in schools. Still, recent events in Chardon remind us that schools—together with parents and their communities—can work to minimize these occurrences. Let’s work together to make each student feel safe, valued, and strong enough to do the right thing.</p><p><em>Question: How does your school work to create a safe and caring school community? Please let us know by posting a comment below!</em></p><div
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isPermaLink="false">http://forumoncharacter.wordpress.com/?p=318</guid> <description><![CDATA[We’ve all been hearing about great educational systems of nations such as Finland and Japan. If you haven’t yet seen “Standing on the Shoulders of Giants,” unveiled recently at an event attended by Secretary Duncan, John Merrow’s blog post provides a succinct summary of insights and a link to the report itself. It’s worth taking a look at what these countries are doing to see if we can learn from them. If these countries don’t debate school choice, teacher accountability, or high-stakes testing, why do we? Will all of our interventions and measurements really make our students achieve more? Perhaps Merrow is right to point to our divergent state policies and lack of support or respect for teachers as weak areas of our educational system. Even so, that leaves us with the question, “What do we focus on right now?” We at CEP propose one word to serve as the foundation of every effort: relationships. Schools should not be failing our kids. In fact, unless the buildings are falling apart, schools can’t fail them. It’s the breakdown in communication and interaction between teachers and students, between administrators and parents, between faculty and staff, between educators and the wider community. It’s been heartbreaking to see recent stories on teachers leaving the profession because of iron-fisted administration policies or facing daily threats with a lack of recourse. Students, teachers, and parents at these schools all lose, because the environment doesn’t encourage the &#8230; <br
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class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’ve all been hearing about great educational systems of nations such as Finland and Japan. If you haven’t yet seen “Standing on the Shoulders of Giants,” unveiled recently at an event attended by Secretary Duncan, John Merrow’s <a
href="http://takingnote.learningmatters.tv/?p=5060" target="_blank">blog post</a> provides a succinct summary of insights and a link to the report itself.</p><p>It’s worth taking a look at what these countries are doing to see if we can learn from them. If these countries don’t debate school choice, teacher accountability, or high-stakes testing, why do we? Will all of our interventions and measurements really make our students achieve more? Perhaps Merrow is right to point to our divergent state policies and lack of support or respect for teachers as weak areas of our educational system.</p><p>Even so, that leaves us with the question, “What do we focus on right now?” <span
id="more-998"></span>We at CEP propose one word to serve as the foundation of every effort: <strong>relationships</strong>. Schools should not be failing our kids. In fact, unless the buildings are falling apart, schools <em>can’t</em> fail them. It’s the breakdown in communication and interaction between teachers and students, between administrators and parents, between faculty and staff, between educators and the wider community. It’s been heartbreaking to see recent stories on <a
href="http://www.golocalprov.com/news/central-falls-teacher-why-i-resigned/" target="_blank">teachers leaving the profession</a> because of iron-fisted administration policies or <a
href="http://www.philly.com/philly/education/118885059.html?page=1&amp;c=y" target="_blank">facing daily threats</a> with a lack of recourse.</p><p>Students, teachers, and parents at these schools all lose, because the environment doesn’t encourage the development of positive connections and relationships that would lead to an atmosphere of teamwork. Contrast that with the inspiring tales of how parents taking charge can become partners in a school’s improvement efforts. While we agree with Merrow that there are no “magic bullets,” there are many ways that fostering relationship-building can benefit a school.</p><p><a
href="http://www.greatschools.org/improvement/parental-power/4138-parent-power-2011-school-turnaround.gs?page=1" target="_blank">One mom heard</a> that the elementary school down the block from her new home was horrible and that she should search for another school to send her kids to. After visiting the school and seeing its dilapidated condition, she instead chose to take action. With support from the principal, she enrolled her kids and gathered together a coalition of parents who came together to help make changes the school could not afford or accomplish on its own—painting classrooms and changing the neighborhood perceptions of the school, allowing the teachers to focus their efforts on teaching.</p><p><a
href="http://neapriorityschools.org/2011/05/20/union-and-parents-join-forces-to-improve-school-conditions/" target="_blank">Another mom also started taking action</a> when she heard about the facility conditions at her son’s school. She hung a shower curtain on a bathroom stall when none of them had doors and then took larger action to build a partnership with other parents that enabled them to develop a compelling case that the school district’s board members could not ignore. Now she’s the president of a reinvigorated PTA that is helping to develop more effective parent-teacher partnerships at other local schools.</p><p>While parents can have a powerful impact on schools, teachers have the most direct impact on student learning. To be effective, teachers need to work in an environment where they feel comfortable suggesting ideas, collaborating with others, and working together with parents and the school administration to gather feedback and make changes. This is why the importance of school leadership cannot be overemphasized. A caring school community can be developed through effective school policies that encourage the development of connections among staff as well as with students and parents. One of this year’s National Schools of Character is accomplishing amazing things while still managing to leading the district in closing the achievement gap—or perhaps they have closed the achievement gap <em>because</em> of these relationships.</p><p><a
href="https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150262130876779.368949.86659861778" target="_blank">Uthoff Valley Elementary School</a> is a public school in Fenton, MO, that has about 20% of its students on free or reduced lunch. While everyone in the school works hard on building relationships, just one example of these efforts comes through monthly early release days, where cross-grade buddy activities are planned by staff teams. Each month, 20 – 30 parent volunteers will come in to the school that day and help run these activities. This frees up the staff, who can therefore be engaged in full-day professional development and planning opportunities. Staff members take the time to recognize and appreciate each other for their actions as well, both publicly and privately, often for something the staff member may not realize he or she had done.</p><p>How can we build on these individual school efforts? Great things are happening on a smaller scale—now we need to find a way to bring these empowering stories into the limelight and build some powerful momentum in a larger undertaking.</p><div
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